10 signs that indicate you should call it quits

Some signs are pretty obvious; you can even feel that you’ve actually fallen out of love with your partner. But more often than not, we aren’t perceptive of these signs. And we try and try and then try some more to make the relationship work, but it’s reached a point beyond repair. Here are 10 (telltale) signs that indicate you should call it quits with your partner. 

You don’t feel like being intimate with your partner anymore. Intimacy is an important aspect of a relationship and when that becomes questionable, then it’s time to reconsider where your relationship is heading. 

When both of you don’t communicate with each other like you previously used to, take it as a sign that your relationship isn’t heading in the right direction. Healthy communication is the foundation of a great, loving relationship and when that breaks down, there’s a serious problem. 

You begin to realise you’re not happy. What is a relationship if it brings you more pain than joy? We’re not saying that your relationship should be the only source of your happiness, but if your partner doesn’t make you happy, you should probably have the talk. 

When you start feeling bored in your relationship, you should think over what’s causing this boredom. Every person deserves to be with someone whom they find interesting and be in a relationship that’s exciting and stimulating.

You’ve stopped trusting your partner due to his actions or behaviour. In a relationship, it takes a lot of effort to build trust, but it takes just one misstep to shatter it. If you can’t get yourself to trust your partner, it’s time to consider a breakup. 

If you’re continually getting the feeling that your needs aren’t met, it’s time you voiced this concern to your partner. You and your partner should fulfill each other’s desires and needs. If you sense that only you’ve been meeting his needs and your needs are left unheard, you should evaluate your relationship status. 

One always needs someone who will continually support their dreams and always have their back as they strive to make it come true. If your partner isn’t supportive of your dreams and ambitions, it’s time to seriously reconsider your relationship.

Has someone else caught your fancy? If you find yourself veering towards someone else and you’re inclined to cheat on your partner, hold it right there, stop! First decide if you’re truly done with your relationship and then consider having the talk with your partner. Cheating on your partner should never be an option, no matter what. 

Are you suddenly experiencing the feeling that you’ve grown apart from your partner? Over the course of time, partners sometimes drift away from each other, not because there’s something wrong in the relationship but it just happens organically. Sometimes things aren’t meant to work out.

If you find yourself being indifferent towards your partner or your relationship, it’s perhaps time to call it quits. When you no longer care about your partner, it’s time to assess where your relationship is actually going.